Parental Grief and Loss After Gender Transition: Navigating Ambiguous and Disenfranchised Loss in Latter-day Saint Families

Authors

David Haralson, Gender Harmony InstituteFollow
Chelsea JohnsonFollow
Jeff Bennion, Gender Harmony InstituteFollow
Orion Maxfield, Gender Harmony InstituteFollow

Keywords

Parental grief, ambiguous loss, disenfranchised grief, gender transition, Latter-day Saint families, Integrity and Investment Model

Abstract

Parents of transgender or gender nonconforming children sometimes experience profound grief and loss, particularly within religious communities that hold specific doctrines regarding gender. This article examines the unique challenges faced by parents in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (LDS Church) when a child undergoes gender transition. By exploring the concepts of ambiguous loss and disenfranchised grief, we aim to provide a framework for understanding these parents' emotional experiences. The intersection of LDS doctrines and policies on gender with contemporary gender theories creates complex emotional environments for families to navigate. We present the Integrity and Investment Model as a therapeutic approach to support parents in processing their grief while maintaining authenticity and fostering connection with their children. Through expanded discussions and illustrative case studies, this article offers insights and interventions for mental health professionals assisting LDS families navigating these sensitive issues.

Recommended Citation

Haralson, David; Johnson, Chelsea; Bennion, Jeff; and Maxfield, Orion (2025) "Parental Grief and Loss After Gender Transition: Navigating Ambiguous and Disenfranchised Loss in Latter-day Saint Families," Issues in Religion and Psychotherapy: Vol. 42: No. 1, Article 6.
Available at: https://scholarsarchive.byu.edu/irp/vol42/iss1/6