Building a Fondness and Admiration System
No one's perfect, including you and the person you're married to. Maybe she squeezes the toothpaste from the middle or he leaves the toilet seat up. Maybe she is bull-headed and he is annoyingly indecisive. Maybe one of you is a workaholic and another spends too much money.
Northrup, Megan and Duncan, Stephen F., "Building a Fondness and Admiration System" (2018). Forever Families. 12.